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We kissed him and let him go: Parents' heartbreak as brave Bobby loses muscular disease battle



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Published Date:
08 February 2008
THE parents of a brave teenager who battled a rare, devastating disease for more than a year have paid tribute to their courageous son.
Bobby McBride, 17, of Ovenden, Halifax, died after fighting muscular disease dermatomyositis at St James's Hospital, Leeds, with his family at his bedside.

Doctors said there was nothing more they could do for the avid snooker player, who suffered complications as a result of the painful condition and the heartbreaking decision to turn off his life support machine was made.

"It was 8pm when we switched his life support off, and for 15 minutes we kissed him, held him and talked to him," said his mum, Anne McCarthy. "We put his iPod on and put in his earphones. He listened to David Gray's Sail Away for those last precious minutes. After all he'd been through, he went peacefully but we have been left completely numb."

Bobby, a former pupil at The Ridings, became ill 14 months ago. It started as a sore throat but his family realised it was more serious when a severe rash developed, he started to lose weight and lost the strength in his muscles and joints.

At Christmas, 2006, Bobby went to hospital with an abscess on his hip. Doctors told him he would die if he didn't have it removed there and then. It was the first of many operations and tests but it was several months before dermatomyositis was diagnosed.

The blistering rashes spread causing open wounds on his knuckles, toes, heels and elbows.

"He was in so much pain but he never let on. That boy was so brave right until the end and we are so proud of him," dad, Mick McBride said.

"Up until then he'd been strong and healthy but he suffered hell in those 14 months.

"I'll never know why he had to go, he was one of the best."

The dermatomyositis spread to Bobby's lungs. He struggled to breathe and as a result, endured terrifying panic attacks, lasting hours at a time.

Eventually both his lungs collapsed and Bobby died on January 28, after being sedated and put on life support.

Anne said: "We'd never given up hope that he would get better but then that was it and there was nothing else anyone could do."

Hundreds of people turned out for Bobby's funeral at St Malachy's Church, Halifax, including his three sisters, Adele, 21, Donna, 38, and Julie, 37.

Mick added: "People were stood outside because there was no room in the church. He was such a popular boy and he will live on in our hearts and memories forever."

Fact File

  • Dermatomyositis is a connective tissue and autoimmune disease. The immune system cannot tell the difference between viruses and bacteria, and its own cells, so attacks itself.

  • The cause is still unknown.

  • Symptoms include a rash , difficulty swallowing and lumps or sheets of calcium under the skin.

  • The disease can be accompanied by depression and misery.

  • It can affect people of any age and sex.

  • For information visit the support group at www.myositis.org.uk.



Did you know Bobby? Post your tribute below.

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  • Last Updated: 08 February 2008 11:37 AM
  • Source: Evening Courier
  • Location: Halifax
 
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AN Other,

Halifax 08/02/2008 11:42:55
May you rest in peace Bobby. My thoughts go out to your family and friends in their time of need. God bless.
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Westlifebird,

08/02/2008 11:54:49
I am in tears - no words just love and thoughts and many hugs to you all. God Bless xxxx
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jaxx,

hx 08/02/2008 12:30:19
I didn't know Bobby but my daughters did.
The eldest was one of the hundreds who attended the funeral.
Although she was very upset she said it was a beautiful service.
R.I.P BOBBY AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY & FRIENDS
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bagpus,

08/02/2008 13:03:49
R.I.P Bobby my thoughts are with your family and freinds. at least you are no longer in pain. no comfort to your family I know.
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sie1,

hx 08/02/2008 13:04:21
he was a great lad and i certainly won't forget him. i worked him at the ridings and he was always polite. it is a sad story for such a good lad. he always full of energy. god bless bobby and his loved ones left with grief. rest in peace mate.
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The Old Biddy,

norfolk 08/02/2008 13:34:47
I feel so sad after reading this story and my heart really does go out to Bobby's parents and sisters and all his family.
I send my deepest sympathy to you all.
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mermaid,

halifax 08/02/2008 13:53:18
rip bobby you were loved by many and will alwas be thinking of you.xxx
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Deb,craig ,family,

HALIFAX 08/02/2008 14:57:40
Bobby Top Lad
Budding Artist, Top snooker player, and the best friend you ever had. The bravest person i knew we all miss him so much. Deepest thoughts to my friends ann` mick and all his family that loved him so very much.
love ya kid
may the angels watch over you today and always x
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kayleigh b xox,

halifax 08/02/2008 15:26:58
bobby (robert mcbride). they wasnt a day at skul wer we dint get split up from each other in class lol. i remember the last tym i came to see you. you wer trying so hard to stay strng.. your looked brave.. i will never forget all those chats we had together in school skipping lessons lol. i will never forget you bob's you will be sadky mist forever. love you kayleigh b. xoxoxoxoxox
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Halifax lad,

08/02/2008 15:38:45
RIP young en!
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